Sunday, July 01, 2007

Salute To an Unbelievable Human Being

She has always been there and she always will. Centuries of evolution have failed to wipe out her species, and with each generation increases her indispensability as the world gets smarter in science and techonology. The wisecracks claim, that come what may, her position in this world is one that can never get eradicated--and yet one that will never catapult her to the annals of the hall-of-fame! And the wisecracks havent been far from the truth. For since the stone-age, there hasnt been any significant remodelling in her mediocre job profile.

She works an 18 hour shift - wakes up unfailingly to the call of the alarm clock early morning, and embarks on her daily chores. There are no 'Sundays' and public holidays, no Christmas and Diwali break. Infact festival times are the ones, when she gathers the extra ounce of energy she manages to magically produce, and works overtime.

She never fails to make enticing aromas waft from the kitchen, and serves all her culinary delights in shining cutlery - which but adds a silver lining to the perfect dining ambience. She oversees the laundry to .... and with the eye of a hawk, especially on those indelible stains, which are all considered to be a personal 'challenge' for her to get rid off. And lo-behold, when one fine morning, the washing machine decides to take a break - not a soul in the household can get away without a dose of the 'I need that fixed immediately' !!!

She belongs to those, whose bathroom cabinet contains remedies for all times -- right from a bruised knee to the common cold. Besides, she also plays the role of an unauthorized-quack, who has home-made remedies for every little of life's problems.

She vacuums the entire house, with a song on her lips, and gets only a trifle annoyed, when the dog enters with muddy paws, and is compelled to do the job all over again. She is also very particular about neatness, and makes sure that her home is a pleasure to visit for all her guests. She enhances the interiors with fresh flowers every day. Small things in life no doubt, but which do make a difference, especially, when done with love.

She is always there to welcome you at the doorstep, with a smile, when you return home tired and hungry. And her evergreen face, displays a relentless eagerness to get you a hot cup of tea even before you ask for it.

She is perpetually the one to switch off the last light in the evening, and the first one to wake up to the call of the alarm-clock the next morning. Once again starts her 18 hour shift.

She rarely complains and she never gets paid. 'Overtime' aside, there aren't any monetary benefits even for her day to day labour. For that matter, there isn’t much gratitude expressed either, for all her accomplished tasks. And infact she has to very often be the prey to immature tantrums thrown, lest any of her tasks happen to be incomplete. For that matter, no educational institution recognizes her profession and no grades are granted for her superior quality work. She isn’t even entitled for leave and neither can she quit her job. And yet she continues working, and that too uncomplainingly......

I salute her, and I salute her unrecognized profession, because she is one of those, who make our world a better place. I call her a miracle-worker, a blessing in disguise, a fairy godmother and an unbelievable human being. The whole wide world, simply refers to her as: HOUSEWIFE. After all, she has always been there, and she always will !!!

~Tweety

14 comments:

Asterix said...

I started thinking you are talking about a good bai, then a mom. Housewife hmmm! I gotta get me one of those surely, but only if they come without any defects like nagging :)

Anuya said...

So true... I just dont know where they get the energy from!

The Golden Silence said...

This one is really a masterpiece... :) You have so written so well that there is nothing more to be told...

I guess, if there were any degree in this world to recognize the efforts of a housewife... it would have been M. House Affairs... no no... Not Masters... Magician of House Affairs :)

Anonymous said...

First I thought it's a salute to a monther ( may be a delayed post on mother's day!).. then it had a twist in the tale!.. keep more posts coming!

Tara said...

Hey Tweety.. Your post touched a chord today.. I was recently told by someone that he didn't want "just a housewife" and that he has no respect for someone like that.
Thanks for writing this.. Its a great post..

Meghana said...

mast likha hai... very true
i was trying to guess who this human being could be..
mujhe bhi pehle laga mom ke baare mein likha hai... :)
good work :D

p.s. dekh-dekh tera comment count badhaya.. :P

Unknown said...

Amazing man!!!! excellent writing.... fantastic stuff :)
keep writing Sweetie !!!

Anonymous said...

nicely written. But dont you think that its a glorified baee role. Dont u think that the role of 'housewife' should be eliminated by everybody through sharing the chores and 'doing one's own jobs'.
just a thought. i always feel that people take advantage of the 'good' housewives by calling them 'good'. they are really the battered lot.

Anonymous said...

I don't like this word "house wife". Sounds as if I have another one at office :)

In our bharatiya tradition, we don't have a word like "house wife". It was always "saha dharma charini"...someone who is an equal stake holder in all the dharmas a householder is supposed to perform in the family (like earning money, raising the kids, taking care of elders, guests, the less fortunate people in the society like orphans etc.). It had a lot of importance since family was the basic unit of society not the individual.

Bridget Jones said...

I would agree with the 2 anonymous commentors as well. Housewives work a lot, but not necessarily because thats the best thing to do.

We don't "celebrate" the watchman, or congratulate the bai for all the good work she does. Thats because the work is not good. And because we pay them for the uninteresting work that they have to do.

But a housewife is Unpaid labor, so we have to "congratulate" her for the work that she is doing. The work "that could not be done by anyone"

I am living alone, doing all the "housework" and I WISH I had a free housewife as well.

But oh, I'm a girl. I don't get a housewife. Life sucks !!

P.S. : Sorry for the rant. :(
I thought about erasing the comment, but then again...

Zahid said...

someone in the comments section said house wife doe snot sound good....You can then call her a domestic engineer!!!

loved the post and the one below too....about things you would want to do in another life,,,,

u r blogrolled!!!
chk me up !!!

P.S : why do some bloggers use word verification?

Ron Lemon said...

hey, I've been thinking about writing on the same topic since a coupla weeks.. there s one picture I wanna publish with the post and its getting very elusive..

as soon as I click the picture, my post is ready for publishing...

you have a nice blog :)

Alameen said...

I also join you in saluting her...
Mom, I love you... :)

Anonymous said...

You write quite well, and should resume writing. :-)